Thursday, April 4, 2019

Understand Introverts people

Introverts

-having thought provoking conversation
-don't like chitchat- meaningless talk, hate small talk
-A lot of socializing can be overwhelming
-want to get straight down to the meat of things (deepest thought, desires, dreams)
-have a therapist guidance counselor mentality and charisma, causing us to make you feel more comfortable with speaking your mind and soul.
-get a satisfaction of having a meaningful conversation with someone without having to fill the empty space with chitchat
-someone who will really listen to you and your thoughts.

-being effective sales people
-pay attention care and are comfortable in familiar situations

-Introverts love to swaddled in love and affection by those close to them especially furry friends (animals)
-they sympathize with animals and can calm a troubled pet since they are experienced with calming their own troubled minds.
- they are like animal, they have a lot of energy and want to have fun, eat and get their belly rubbed but when all is said and done they need their rest

-Being Observant
-Introvert analyze the surrounding,  rather than focus on biases, so when they finally voice out their misgivings, they should be taken seriously.

- they are also the ones to be the devil's advocate notice flaws and ideas and concepts
-they spend a lot of times thinking about the worst possible situation and how to get out of them.

-listen to your troubles, since introverts know how hard it is for them to express their emotions verbally, if a loved do express his feelings to them they will listen hard and well, perfect for when you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to hear your story.

-Sensitive to pain, familiar with pain and suffering, so they are quite experienced on how to alleviate any emotional pain your are going through.

-introverts don't speak quite often so when they do every single word was chosen very careful, sometimes due to this introverts may take a while to get a sentence out since they are mentally preparing and rehearsing each word before they say it.

-know themselves well, quiet persons have the loudest minds, constantly having inner monologues, evaluating themselves and their choices in everyday situations.

-their minds are constantly urging for more facts and things to ponder over in the silence of their daily lives.
-Don't like spotlight
-Don't want to cause other trouble


What I like about introvert? (Henry, Ruth)
Always feel free and secured to share my hardest feeling/situation with them.
Always have deeper meaningful kind of conversation, walk out getting different perspective and insight. walk out feeling more relief & and educated.
sometimes know me better than myself
Always feels like being listened, understood, never judged or have biases. Great great listener. provide incredible advice like counselors, source of wisdom.
Humors, react quick with jokes. super smart with logic
Always notice my need to details, take actions of helping others instead of speak it out loud.
Prepared, professionals, on time, humble, attentive, careful to detail, get the work done very nicely, thinking before acting, triple check themselves...remind me and I can look up/admire.
They know who they are, what they want, and what is important to them.- confident!
Being loyal friend, will not betray you, will never talk your secret behind your back or lie to you in a harmful way. cherished friendships and would never betray someone who once confided in them. Value relationship and try hard to maintain them. best friend you ever had.

They choose friends carefully, quality over quantity

10 things introverts need in a relationship
-Meaningful conversation- hoping to discuss open ended question
-less stimulating environments
-take it slow
-Be understanding, sense/consider their feeling, don't enjoy conflict, more careful about what battle to fight
-provide mental support, they often overthinking,  play best friend role
-read between the lines
-respect the space
-spend quality time together
-Fully accept them, assure to love them for who they are
-don't assume



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