真正的安全感comes from kindness~~~

朵朵小語＜愛是一種自由＞
也許是因為太在乎，也許是因為缺乏安全感，你總是想緊緊抓住一份情感，於是在不知不覺之中，你就把甜美的擁有變成了霸道的占有。
但你愈是想抓緊一個人，那個人就愈想逃開。這樣的關係一旦形成，這份感情也就走向了必然的衰敗。
因為，在你企圖占有他的同時，你自己也會被那種焦慮的心態所占有，因此感到痛苦的不是只有他，還有你自己。而苦多樂少的兩人又怎麼能夠長久？
親愛的，真正的愛是一種放鬆，一種流動，而不是綑綁，不是掌控。
讓彼此都擁有自由，這樣的關係才有樂趣，才會和諧輕快，恰似流水悠悠。

 Today I read about ....
"When I felt safe, I said, 'I will never fear.' Lord, in your kindness you made my mountain safe. But when you turned away, I was frightened."

Psalm 30:6-7

真正的安全感和完全的kindness is from GOD!! In Him, we can feel safe and secure. Lord, you are my 避難所, 使我安歇的地方... Your total kindness make me feel safe~~~~~ so I can trust You and won't have fear in this kind of loving relationship. Lord, thank you for helping me to learn this lesson...so when I meet someone I love, I can learn to let lose and trust....instead of holding it tooooo tight that the other person can't breath~~~~~ and need to run away :(

Lesson of life!
Thank you Abba, to always let me learn...